Qué no decir a un abogado de lesiones personales en Texas

Should you actually hold anything back from your own lawyer?

No. The phrase “what not to say to a lawyer” gets the danger backwards. Communications with your attorney, made to obtain legal advice, are privileged — they are not evidence the other side can use, and your lawyer cannot be compelled to reveal them.

The facts people most want to bury are the ones that decide a case: an old back injury, a prior claim, a DUI, a gap in health coverage, an immigration question, or the honest admission that you glanced at your phone. Disclosed early, the case is built to handle it. Discovered first by the defense — and they will look — it becomes an ambush that wrecks your credibility. Tell your lawyer everything, especially the parts you would rather not.

So who are you really talking to when you “say the wrong thing”?

Almost always, the other side. Within days of a crash an insurance adjuster will call — often a friendly one from the at-fault driver’s insurer — and that conversation, not the one with your lawyer, is what sinks claims. The adjuster is trained and pleasant and paid to reduce what the company pays. Anything you say can be recorded and read back months later.

You are not required to give the other driver’s insurer a recorded statement, and you should not give one before you have counsel and before you know how badly you are hurt.

What phrases hurt a Texas injury claim the most?

“I’m fine” or “I’m not hurt”

Said at the scene out of shock or courtesy, this is one of the most damaging things a person can say. Adrenaline hides pain, and serious injuries — concussions, disc injuries, internal bleeding — often surface hours or days later. “I’m fine” gets quoted back to argue you were never really injured.

“I’m sorry”

A reflexive apology can be characterized as an admission of fault. You may just have been being polite. The defense will present it as you accepting blame. Say nothing at the scene that sounds like an apology.

Guesses about speed, distance, or time

“I was probably doing about 45” or “he came out of nowhere” are guesses, and a guess that later conflicts with the physical evidence is used to call you unreliable. If you do not know, say you do not know.

“I never saw him”

It sounds honest, but in a proportionate-responsibility state it can be spun into an admission that you were not paying attention. Describe what happened; do not editorialize about your own attention.

Why does Texas’s fault rule make careless words so expensive?

Texas follows proportionate responsibility under Tex. Civ. Prac. & Rem. Code § 33.001. Your recovery is reduced by your percentage of responsibility, and if your share is found to be greater than 50 percent, you recover nothing — the “51 percent bar.”

That threshold is why offhand statements matter so much. Where fault is genuinely contested, an insurer only needs to move you from 50 percent to 51 percent to erase the claim — and a recorded “I guess I could have braked sooner” is exactly the material used to do it. Words that would only trim a recovery in a pure-comparative state can be fatal in Texas.

What should you never say to an insurance adjuster?

Beyond the phrases above, avoid: agreeing to a recorded statement on the spot, speculating about your injuries (“I think it’s just a bruise”), accepting the adjuster’s version of the crash, and discussing a settlement number before your treatment is finished. You do not have to answer everything. It is entirely proper to say you are represented, or getting represented, and that all communication should go through your lawyer. Give only the basics — that an accident occurred, the date and place, and who was involved. The rest can wait for counsel.

How does social media get used against you?

Defense investigators routinely review a claimant’s public posts. A photo of you smiling at a barbecue, a gym check-in, a “feeling great!” caption — none of it reflects your medical reality, but all of it is offered to suggest you are not hurt. During a claim, post nothing about the accident, your injuries, your activities, or your case, and decline new “friends” you do not know. Do not delete existing posts, either — Texas law can sanction the destruction of evidence, and although Texas requires a showing of intent to conceal before a jury is instructed on spoliation (Brookshire Brothers, Ltd. v. Aldridge, 438 S.W.3d 9), deleting posts mid-claim still hands the defense an argument. Simply stop adding to the record.

What about talking to the other driver at the scene?

Exchange what the law requires — name, insurance, registration — and check on anyone hurt. Do not argue about fault, do not apologize, and do not accept blame to keep the peace. Let the crash report and the evidence establish what happened. Anything said in a heated roadside conversation can be repeated later, out of context.

What SHOULD you tell your lawyer, even if it is embarrassing?

All of it: prior injuries to the same body part, earlier accidents or claims, pre-existing conditions, any alcohol or drugs in your system, whether you were belted, any criminal history, gaps in treatment, and anything you already said to an adjuster or posted online. None of these facts automatically ruins a case. Hiding them does. A prior injury does not bar recovery for a new one — Texas lets you recover for the aggravation of a pre-existing condition — but only if your lawyer knows in time to prove where the old injury ended and the new one began.

How long do you have in Texas, and why does waiting make talk riskier?

Texas generally gives you dos años from the date of injury to file, Tex. Civ. Prac. & Rem. Code § 16.003. Claims against a governmental unit are different: the Texas Tort Claims Act imposes a formal notice requirement — commonly six months, and some cities require notice much sooner under their charters — long before any lawsuit deadline. Texas minimum liability coverage is 30/60/25 (Tex. Transp. Code § 601.072), which is often far too little for a serious crash, so uninsured and underinsured motorist coverage frequently matters.

The clock is also an evidence clock. Camera footage is overwritten within days or weeks, vehicles are repaired, and witnesses move. The earlier a lawyer is involved, the fewer chances there are to say something you cannot take back — and the better the odds of preserving what proves your side.

Where do you go next?

For the bigger picture, see our Houston y Dallas pages, plus Houston car accidents y Houston truck accidents. It also helps to understand what a personal injury lawyer actually does y how a case’s value is calculated. If your accident happened across a state line, the rules differ: Arkansas, Mississippi, y Tennessee each have their own version of this page.

Preguntas frecuentes

Should I hide anything from my own personal injury lawyer in Texas?

No. What you tell your lawyer to get legal advice is protected by attorney-client privilege. The facts people want to hide — prior injuries, a DUI, a treatment gap — are exactly what your lawyer needs first, so the defense cannot spring them on you. Be completely candid with your attorney.

Who should I be careful talking to after a Texas accident?

The other side — especially the at-fault driver’s insurance adjuster — along with the police, the other driver, and anyone on social media. You are not required to give the other insurer a recorded statement, and you should not before speaking with a lawyer.

What is the worst thing to say after a car accident in Texas?

Statements like “I’m fine,” “I’m sorry,” or guesses about speed and distance. In shock, people minimize injuries or apologize reflexively, and those words get quoted back to argue you were not hurt or were at fault.

Why does saying the wrong thing matter more in Texas?

Texas uses proportionate responsibility with a 51 percent bar (Tex. Civ. Prac. & Rem. Code § 33.001). If you are found more than 50 percent responsible you recover nothing, so a careless admission that pushes your share over the line can erase the entire claim.

Do I have to give the other driver’s insurance company a recorded statement?

No. You are not obligated to give the at-fault party’s insurer a recorded statement, and giving one early — before you understand your injuries or have counsel — is where people lock in harmful admissions. It is proper to route all communication through your lawyer.

Can my social media posts be used against me in a Texas injury case?

Yes. Defense investigators review public posts and present cheerful photos or activity check-ins to suggest you are not really hurt. Stop posting about the accident, your injuries, or your activities — but do not delete old posts, which can hand the defense a destruction-of-evidence argument.

Will a prior injury ruin my Texas claim?

Not by itself. Texas lets you recover for the aggravation of a pre-existing condition. But your lawyer has to know about it early to separate the old injury from the new one; concealed and then discovered by the defense, it damages your credibility instead.

¿Cuánto tiempo tengo que presentar una reclamación por lesión personal en Texas?

Generally two years from the date of injury under Tex. Civ. Prac. & Rem. Code § 16.003. Claims against a governmental unit require formal notice much sooner — often within six months, sometimes less under a city charter — so early legal advice matters.

This page is legal information, not legal advice, and does not create an attorney-client relationship. Every case turns on its own facts, and statutes and case law change; only a lawyer who has reviewed your file can advise you on what to say and when. Prior results do not guarantee a similar outcome. Responsible attorney: Larry “Jimmy” Peters, Texas Bar No. 24113438. Southern Injury Attorneys maintains a Texas office in Houston.